–––––– Take Back Control - 30 Day Reset ––––––
Your Reactions are Costing You Things You Can't Get Back
A private reset for leaders done paying for reactions with decisions, relationships, and momentum.
This is designed to interrupt your next reaction – not analyze the last one.
-– Take Back Control - 30 Day Reset ––
Every Reaction
Has a Cost
A private reset for high-performers who are done paying for reactions with time, trust, and momentum.
This is designed to interrupt your next reaction – not analyze the last one.
You’re Not Broken. You’re Reacting.
And those reactions don’t stay contained ... They spill into decisions, conversations, and relationships that matter.
You replay conversations long after they’re over
You hear criticism where none was intended
You over-explain or defend under pressure
You know better – and still decide the same
You’ve tried insight.
You’ve tried therapy.
You’ve tried “being more mindful.”
And yet, under pressure, the same version of you keeps showing up.
Not because you lack discipline.
Not because you’re emotionally immature.
But because old reactions are still making present-day decisions.
The question isn’t whether this is happening – it’s whether you’re ready to interrupt it.
This Doesn't Just Stay Internal
Left unchecked, reactivity shows up as:
Tension or distance in your marriage
Defensive leadership and strained teams
Avoided conversations that quietly cost you respect
A constant sense of being “on edge” despite success
Most men don’t fear failure.
They fear realizing too late what their decisions have cost them.
And the longer it goes unchecked, the more it costs.
How 30 Days Can Shift Your Trajectory
This isn’t about changing who you are.
It’s about changing how decisions get made under pressure.
In 30 days, you will:
Catch the hijack within seconds instead of running on autopilot
Respond from your adult self – not old childhood programs
Make at least one difficult decision you’ve been avoiding
Experience fewer emotional escalations – and recover faster when they happen
Not perfect.
Not “healed.”
Steady. Clear. In control.
Without intervention, the same moments repeat – just with new people and higher stakes.
100+ professionals coached | 99% completion rate | 0 refunds ever requested
This Is Used By People With Real Stakes
Leaders who couldn’t afford to keep reacting the same way.
Strategic Advisor & Board Member (Palantir Alum)
"Before, I was feeling inadequate, defensive, and stressed. After, I was in professional situations achieving the best possible outcomes and felt prepared to achieve... "
- Andrew Pettit
Biology Leader, Organoid + Stem Cell Innovation
"My mindset is forever different. I shed 40 lbs, rebuilt my energy, improved my relationships, and joined a founding team building a new biotech venture. The ROI was immediate."
- Bryan Vought
Executive Producer, "Jane the Virgin"
"Before, I was hitting the same limits in my reactions and decisions. After this work, I now trust myself under pressure and show up differently in both my work and relationships."
- Gary Pearl
How The 30-Day Reset Works
A simple system designed to interrupt reactive patterns and install better decisions under pressure.
This is how you stop paying for the same reactions again and again.
5 private 60-minute sessions over 30 days
Focused on real situations you’re dealing with right nowA short daily practice (20–30 minutes)
We install micro habits each week that buildA repeatable decision system you keep for life
Once it’s installed, it gets stronger with every use
This isn’t coaching you rely on. It’s a system you walk away owning.
A Decision Reset – Not A Personality Overhaul.
Most coaching starts with goals.
I start before that, so goals become easier.
This work focuses on:
How decisions are actually being made under pressure
Why insight hasn’t translated into change
Installing a repeatable process for an adult response
When decisions change, everything downstream follows:
Relationships
Leadership
Energy
Direction
What If This Doesn’t Work For Me?
This won’t work if you want insight but don’t want to interrupt yourself.
This reset is for people who already know better – but still react in the moment.
We don’t talk about what you should have done afterward. We work inside the moment it’s happening.
If you’re willing to pause, practice, and respond differently in real conversations, this works.
If you want things to change without doing that, it won’t.
This Is For You If ...
You’re successful but internally exhausted
You’re done “knowing better” without change
You want practical emotional control – not theory
You’re willing to practice under pressure
This Is NOT For You If ...
You want motivation or inspiration
You want to vent or process emotions endlessly
You’re looking for quick hacks or affirmation
You’re unwilling to look at how you decide
What Happens After the Reset
The 30-Day Reset stabilizes the system.
You’ll know whether you’re back in control ... or not.
At the end of the reset, we decide together whether it makes sense to go deeper – or not.
For now, the only decision is whether you want to stay reactive – or take back control.
Your Investment
This is private, high-touch work for people who are done reacting in ways they don’t respect.
What you’re investing in:
A bulletproof decision system you can use for the rest of your life
Tools to interrupt emotional hijacking in the moment.
Five private sessions focused on actual moments, not theory
A daily practice that compounds the more you use it
Important to know:
This is not free
This is not casual
This is not for everyone
Spots are limited* by design.
An application is required to ensure fit.
* I only take on six new clients each month so this work stays focused and personal. Applications are reviewed weekly. Capacity resets monthly.
Most people apply after a moment they wish they'd handled differently.
Still Have Questions? Let's Clear Them Up.
These are the questions most clients ask before starting their update.
Is this therapy?
No.
Therapy often focuses on understanding where things come from. This work focuses on what happens in the moment when you’re triggered and how to respond differently. We’re not here to analyze your past – we’re here to change how decisions get made now.
How long until I see change?
Many notice shifts in awareness within the first 2 weeks. By the end others will start telling you there is something different about you. It's not magic, when you do the work, it works.
What if I’m busy?
Most people I work with are busy.
The daily work takes about 20–30 minutes, and the sessions are focused and practical.
This isn’t extra work – it replaces the mental friction and second-guessing that’s already draining your energy.
What if I’ve already tried everything?
That’s common.
Most people who apply have already done therapy, coaching, or personal growth. The difference here is that we’re not adding more insight – we’re changing how you respond under pressure.
That’s usually the missing piece.